As parents, one of the most challenging aspects of parenthood is raising our children’s self-belief. Especially in the modern world, self-belief and confidence are in short supply. Many people focus on what they cannot do as opposed to what they are most capable of. That is a serious issue, and something that we highly recommend any parent tries to break their child free from.
Self-esteem is vital to a child, but raising self-esteem is not easy. Here, though, are three proven activities that could help elevate them out of this particular rut.
Ask them to make a decision
This might sound ridiculous, but many parents decide more or less everything for their kids. This can lead to their children feeling inadequate or incapable of making the big calls. You should therefore look to give your children more decision-making opportunities.
Something as simple as letting them choose their school bag, or even what you have for dinner this evening, can be a starting point to self-confidence. Adding a bit of control and agency into their life can help them to feel more assured in their decision-making skills.
Ask them to branch out
One of the best ways to raise self-belief is to have your child try out a new activity or experience. It could be trying out new food, trying out a new sport, lifting an instrument for the first time, or playing a different video game.
This is vital as it helps your children to see that they can do things outside of their typical present boundaries. Once they see progress and improvement in that activity, too, it can further improve their self-belief. Over time, this encourages them to take positive risks and try new things.
Ask for their opinion
This might seem weird, but many parents tell their children what their opinion is on a subject without asking their children what they think. Worse, many parents will ‘correct’ their child if their opinion sways from what the parent believes. Unless you are talking about facts, i.e. 2 plus 2 equals 4, you should not look to tell your child what their opinions are.
Instead, ask what they think and even if you disagree try to find out how they arrived at that point. This helps children explain their reasoning, showcasing their intellect and deductive skills. Often, they will impress you with their conclusions!
Carry out the above, and you can make your child feel more confident and capable.